Top 3 ways self sabotage stops you

  1. You don’t give yourself permission to get what you want. Even if you’re finally over the “I don’t deserve” syndrome and think this doesn’t apply to you, I invite you to look again. Is there any chance you feel a duty, a responsibility to other people or to an ideal? Might you be entertaining thoughts that are quite valid but can be misused such as acknowledging that the grass isn’t always greener elsewhere, being grateful for what you do have, and being aware of economic circumstances? Let yourself want what you want; you can decide what to do about that want once you see it fully.
  2. You are not honest about what you want. You make goals and declare dreams that sound great but aren’t really what YOU want. So of course your subconscious isn’t very motivated to help you achieve something you don’t really care for. It might even sabotage any results to preserve your time and energy for the real thing, whenever you are finally willing to admit what it is. Save yourself that delay and aggravation and listen to your soul.
  3. You need to know from the start how to make things happen. Anyone who knows me knows I’m not a fan of pie-in-the-sky business management! But haven’t you experienced how being bogged down in details too early can snuff the life out of a dream or a project? You can’t anticipate all possibilities and future events anyway so give yourself time to first fully own your dream before trying to figure it all out.

These were points made by best-selling author Sonia Miller in a recent teleseminar, the first of a 3-part free series called the “Ultimate Manifestation”. Now I’ve explained them in my own words and if you are interested in the Law of Attraction and why it doesn’t always work, I recommend that you sign up for the recordings (and the next two classes).

She gave a lot of other good information in the first class alone, such as:

Again, here’s my link to her free series.

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